In 2008, I needed to start this blog. Because someone (and that someone was going to have to be me) needed to speak about the truth. Someone needed to tell the truth, no matter how blunt, how painful or how terrifying that would be. Read more »
Now I know there are many of you who are learning the skills in which to attract women. Some of you have been successful in this. So once you have found one girl that you would actually like to make your girlfriend and build something more long term, now what?
Like a dog chasing a car, doesn’t know what to do with it, once he has caught it, now what the heck do you do? Do you do everything you did in the beginning to attract her? Will that be enough? Will that keep her interested long term?
Well there are a couple of things you should know, that will help you to not only create, but MAINTAIN the interest of your girlfriend. I will show you through this mini video series ways which you can convert all the skills you learned from “the game” to develop them so you can keep your girlfriend interested.
IN this particular video I will be talking about the important of “keeping it real”. Many times you are told in pick up to “fake it till you make it”, but how long can you really fake it?
I was dealing with a pretty bad toothache while filming this video, so thankyou for bearing with me. Despite that, I really wanted to get this video out to you =)
While checking over my 800 survey responses to the question “what is your biggest problem when it comes to attracting/approaching/interacting with women”, I found that a lot of you guys were concerned about your looks and were wondering how important they truly were in attracting women.
So I want to give you the truth! And I hate to sound cliché, but its not all about your looks. In fact they have very little to do with how attractive a woman will find you. Click here to read more »
To attract a woman all you need is money, looks and lots of presents. This is something that I hear all the time. And its complete BULLS**T!
You want to really know what attracts a woman to you? Its your presence, your charisma and the ability to make her feel good about herself when she is around you. That is what draws women in and keeps them interested.
So how do we navigate around this idea of buying drinks or gifts to get her attention? Well I say don’t! Don’t do any of it! You don’t have to buy a woman’s attention. In fact showering a woman with flowers and chocolates on a first date would be the worse thing to do.
In this video I will show you, what really attracts a woman to you. And how gifts can act as the icing on top of the cake rather than a substitute for creating real attraction.
At times women seem like the most confusing people in the world to understand. They don’t like mind games. They do like mind games. They don’t want a challenge. They do want a challenge. They do want you to show interest. They don’t want you to show interest. I answer all these questions and relive all sense of confusion, by getting to the root cause of problem and show you how you can truly attract women, by cultivating your own sense of identity.
No pick up lines. No mention about cocky funny humour. No pull and push techniques. I’m here to get you guys back to the basics. Because when you follow and master the basics, the rest will come naturally.
Here are the my 3 tips which you can use to help attract women, naturally, without all the mind games!
1) Don’t second guess yourself – there is perfection in every action and word you speak.
2) Pursue women that are equally interested in you – Divert your attention away from the women who are “not” interested in you and refocus on the ones that are receptive to your efforts.
3) Cultivate your assertiveness – you ability to make decisions quickly, to move and speak with intention all help in attracting women, effortlessly and without any mind games at all. Allow assertiveness to arise within you and spread to all other areas of your life.
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I know it can be confusing sometimes as to whether or not a woman is interested in you. I want to stop the guessing game!
In this video I’m going to share with you, what are the most obvious signs that she is attracted to you. No hair flicking and eye fluttering that can sometimes be a little too subtle, that you miss it. These are things that are BLINDING Obvious she is attracted to you and what 99% of women engage in when attraction strikes them!
I will cover two core topics, how she shows her attraction through her ACTIONS and how she shows her attraction through her WORDS!
About 2 years I created a videoabout “how to really attract women” – It continues to be one of my most popular dating you tube videos.
Since that time, I have come to some new distinctions which can really help men attract women. I’ve realised that it is not based on all the techniques, but rather its about developing a particular mindset about yourself and women, which in turn will magnetize women to you.
Here are the top three tips I discuss in this video
1) Be proactive and keep pushing for the next step. Resistance is part of the process.
2) Be transparent, you have a unique personality so use it! Get comfortable with who you are, its all you’ve got.
3) Blow as many women out of the water. Get it out of your system. Take the pressure off. Give yourself the approval that you are seeking.
I’m sure there are many of YOU guys who have gone through a breakup – where the girl has clearly dumped you.
Breakups in general suck! But if its a different girl, but the same situation over and over again, then there has to be something “Your” doing to contribute the ultimate ending of your relationship.
If you can get her, thats one thing, but can you really keep her, because that in itself is the ultimate skill.
Jay and I don’t really believe in rules. But more guidelines, ways of thinking and principles. In this video we address some hot issues like;
*Why girls like straight to your face and get away with it.
*The truth about “being yourself” and what really works.
*What are some attractive factors that keep a girl interested and begging for MORE MORE MORE!
Isn’t that the ultimate question? Why is that women date bad boys but marry the nice guy?
This was very true to a friend of mine who has NO PROBLEM with men whatsoever. Lets just say that she had flirting and gaining men’s attraction down to the T.
So here she is dating all these great looking men, successful, rich men who because of this were also able to get a lot of women.
In other words she was dating a lot of players and kind of rough and tough guys.So anyways life is all good and then I hear that she is dating this new guy. Things are going pretty strong and they are spending lots of time together.
Then comes the day when I get to meet him and by then they had been going out for quite a while. So I meet him and my jaw drops. But not because of the reason that you think. Not because he is drop dead gorgeous. Not becuase his personality just blew me away.
But because he was NOTHING, NOTHING like the type of guy she had dated before.
Just probably the opposite of it. And here is the thing. You could totally tell that he was a nice sweet and genuine guy. He was not going to mess around with her. He was the real deal!
So many of you are thinking … WHAT??!! WHAT??!!
Why is that? Well thats why you have to watch the video!! Don’t you just hate it when I leave you hanging like that?
You guys asked for it. So I’m just delivering the goods.
What are 3 things that we can learn to really create instant attraction with women. Well if you are a nice guy and what you are doing in the dating scene is not really working for ya. The this would be a great video to watch, because I’ve put some great tips in here.
If you want a sneak peak the 3 points I cover are
1) Being in control
3) Being unpredictable
If you want to learn more in depth about this, then watch!!
For the gals, this will be a great video for ya, because it will finally give us some answers why we are attracted to certain guys and what really goes on behind the scenes.
So enjoy everybody.
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