Ok so we all know that women are testing all the time. Recently this has been re-enforced while I’m listening to Tony Robbins relationship DVD.
Not only are women testing while in the dating process. But they are also testing when it comes to being in a relationship.
As women we always want to know …
Do you really love me? Will you stick by us through thick and thin? Do you understand my real needs? Will you stand to me … so I know that you can stand up for me? Can you protect me? Will you protect me no matter what?
I think one thing that men get wrong, when a woman is storming is that whatever she is storming about is all HIS fault.
Then the guy feels inadequate and feels like a failure because he feels like he cannot solve her problems.
He feels like he can’t take care of his woman and no matter what he does … he is not enough.
Being “not enough” is one of human’s greatest fears. Click here to read more »
“How do you define successful relationships, and what does it take to achieve that success?”
This was a question that lance posted on their blog like a couple of days ago. It’s a small competition that they are holding .. and if any of you know me, you know that I LOVE competitions. So I’m going to put my best foot forward.
So how do I define success in relationships? I’m wondering if he wants it in an e book or an encyclopedia collection … lol…
Seriously there is so much that goes into defining successful relationships. Now I know I could just cover the usual. Honesty, love, communication blah blah blah …
Yeh yeh I know that we need them …. I mean you have to be pretty slow to not realize that these are highly important things in ANY relationship.
But I’m going to go through some things that I think are SO important that a lot of people overlook. So you guys better be ready for it. Click here to read more »
Every week or two I will be answering a question from the Girls Ask Guys website. I personally love this place, there are so many questions, articles and things to do and read that cause a lot of inspiration for this blog.
So one of the questions asked on this was;
Girls, is there the perfect time/place to speak to women? Is there a chance to understand the other gender better?
Answer: Isn’t this the most debated topic like ever? What are the best pickup lines? When is the right time to approach a girl? What are the best things you can say to make yourself look cool?
So here is the thing …
The only reason why guys are where they are is because they have been asking the wrong questions!! …
Picking up and attracting the opposite sex isn’t about the way you look, what lines you use and what car you drive. While I will admit they do help .. they are not the end all. Click here to read more »
So it’s the 21st century, times are changing more rapidly then ever before. The phone you got last week is now outdated, today’s news is already old, attitudes and life values are changing as quick as Paris Hilton’s boyfriends. But one thing that I don’t think will be changing any time soon is who should confess their love first!
Hey I’m all about being the modern alpha female. The chick who’s middle name is “challenge me”, who wants to juggle her ambition, family, love life and “being a nice person” all into a 24 hour day. Bring it on!
But when I hear these comments about girls confessing their love to boys first I almost have to cringe. Because when it comes to the dating arena the rules of the game change and some chicks just don’t get it.
So here it is 5 reason why you should never confess your feelings to a guy first! Click here to read more »
Breaking up has got to be one of the suckiest times in our lives. I wish someone had warned me about how painful they really can be. But apparently I missed that memo. Getting back on your feet again and learning to trust someone again is a journey in itself. But ultimately break-ups lead to us understanding life, relationships and ourselves much more. Despite this it’s TOUGH. So I’m here to help by listing some of the inevitable stages of a break-up and what you can do about them to GET OVER IT!
Denial
First comes the fact that you even recognize that there is a problem and that he/she actually told you that they are breaking up with you. Essentially you are waiting for the “Hahahaha just kidding babe, I want you back”. But nothing seems to arrive. Click here to read more »
