3 Secrets Why Men FAIL With Women …

Click here to find out what the secret is!

Being able to attract a woman or the women of your choosing sometimes comes down to knowing what NOT to do and making sure you avoid it at all costs. Just like there is a formula for success equally there is a formula for failure.

Here are the three top reasons why men FAIL when it comes to attracting or interacting with women:

1. They are conflicted on how to act.

2. They don’t believe they truly deserve the woman they want.

3. They don’t have the skills or knowledge about triggering attraction and understanding what turns a woman off and what turns her on.

Underpinning that is one principle that once you are aware of can completely change the way you date, relate, communicate, and interact with women forever. You can find out what it is here

Enjoy guys and I’ll see you in the next video!

Hot Alpha Female

A Good Place To Start …

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

- Lao-tzu

Hello and welcome! This may or may not be the first time that you are stopping by here but I want this to be a place where you can visit and will continue to visit regularly.

You may have come here for various different reasons, whatever they are, I want you to realize that in the process of learning how to relate better to women you are going to have to learn to better relate with yourself.

Here is a really great starting point to bring you up to speed on how you can create and maintain attraction with women in the long term. Some posts will take a few minutes to read, some will take longer. I make one promise – once you have read these posts you will know more about attracting a woman than 90% of men out there. Click here to read more »

Secrets To Gauging And Triggering A Woman’s Attraction (You’ve got 72 hours …)

Instant Access to my Report: http://www.askhotalphafemale.com/newoffer

(Yes, it’s a brand new guide!)

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A lot of you guys came up with the same question over and over again. How do I know if she is really interested in me? What are the signs? How do I know where she is at? So, I decided to write you a report which answers many of these different questions.

As a BONUS for the next 72 hours I will also be giving you access to part of an interview I recorded with Marni (The WingGirlMethod) all about sh*t testing. Why it happens, what is looks like and how you can prevent it.

This bonus will be ending 2nd April 2011 Saturday 8:00PM (PST)

Also remember that for the next 72 hours there will be sneak peak twitter updates of content straight from the report!

I will see you guys next week!

P.s. For those of you that have already purchased the guide and want to leave your comments, success stories or testimonials you can do so just below!

Hot Alpha Female

3 Biggest Myths on Attracting Women (You’ve got 24 hours!)

23rd March 2011

UPDATE: Offer is now closed!! Thanks for all the wonderful support!! It’s been a great learning experience and now I know better ways I can serve you. I received a whole lot of emails with some great comments! You guys know who you are, what you say to me in private you can say to me publicly, too! Nothing to hide! Thanks guys and I’ll be seeing you later on this week! Wooohooo!!!

P.s I know NO blogpost on Saturday. But you guys are just going to have to wait. I have been sleep deprived for about 5 days and my brain thinks in a discombobulated manner when this happens and not in a good way. For now, know that when my post comes out on Saturday, it will be fresh out of the press and full of HAF content =)


http://www.askhotalphafemale.com/offer - here is the link to my down-loadable guide 3 Biggest Myths on Attracting Women.

It will only be available for the next 24 hours, and all you lovely guys who support me will get private access to my video on the 4 other myths men mistakenly engage in and EXACTLY what to do about it.

Thank you for all your wonderful support over the years ……

See you guys next week!!!


P.S Good, bad. Superficial, insightful. I want to hear everything you guys say. I love your love mail. And I love your hate mail. I value all your opinions. So leave your comments on the guide right here on this post =)

Hot Alpha Female

How To Really Attract Women Revisited!

About 2 years I created a about “how to really attract women” – It continues to be one of my most popular dating you tube videos.

Since that time, I have come to some new distinctions which can really help men attract women. I’ve realised that it is not based on all the techniques, but rather its about developing a particular mindset about yourself and women, which in turn will magnetize women to you.

Here are the top three tips I discuss in this

1) Be proactive and keep pushing for the next step. Resistance is part of the process.

2) Be transparent, you have a unique personality so use it! Get comfortable with who you are, its all you’ve got.

3) Blow as many women out of the water. Get it out of your system. Take the pressure off. Give yourself the approval that you are seeking.

Enjoy guys,

Hot Alpha Female

How To Talk To Girls – If A 9 Year Old Can Do It – So Can You!

Yep thats right.

Little nine year old Alec Greven successful author of has figured out and now shows you how to talk to girls. If he can do it then so can you!

No more complaining to me about how hard it is to approach women.

Here is a nine year old who can do it better than you! Where are all your excuses now?

So what are some of the tips he has ….

“The best choice for most boys is a regular girl. Remember, some pretty girls are cold hearted when it comes to boys. Don’t let them get to you.”

“If I say hi and you say hi back, we’re probably off to a good start”

It sound so simple doesn’t it?

Ever heard the acronym KISS? Click here to read more »

Five Minute Find A Man Monday’s – 3 Surefire Ways To Get Noticed

Hey Girlies,

Well I’m sure that may of you that are reading this are smart, beautiful go getter girls who have the world at your feet.

But for some reason you can’t seem to get the guys to notice you, give you the attention you deserve and want to start dating you or have a relationship with you.

So are the girls that are being oogled and googled by guys any different from the girls that are not. Is it all just based on looks? AKA being really good looking?

Well I think NOT!

Well thats why I have written 3 surefire ways you can start getting noticed more, not only by guys but by the world.

Kool huh? You girls should try it and let me know how you go.

Hot Alpha Female

Why A Man Stays When A Woman Has Her Storm

So a lot of you have already read my last post and made some very insightful and interesting comments.

Ok that was the nice way of putting it.

A lot of you don’t agree with what I have just said.

Maybe this is an area which i cannot be so articulate in as much as I would like to.

So I’m adding this video, so that maybe you guys will see the point that I’m attempting to get across.

For men to stand by their women they love … no matter what.


Hot Alpha Female

The Ultimate Cube Spoiler!

For those of that are reading this post for the first time. Then read “I Just Got Cubed, Now It’s Your Turn“. Because otherwise this is seriously going to be a bit of a spoiler!

So for those of you that have already had a look at my first post. Then here are the results. N sorry that I kept some of you waiting!!

The landscape represents how you see your world. Are there mountains in the distance that are blocking your view. Is it lush and green? How do you feel within this landscape. Is it welcoming?

The cube actually represents yourself =) So remember to note the relation of the cube to the landscape. Is it big or small? The position of the cube is also important. Floating cubes actually represent ideas people, who can be a little lofty. Solid cubes signify stability. The color is also important as well. But more importantly its how you feel about that color. When you look at that cube, do you feel peaceful or happy. Some of the cubes that I have come across, are big sandstone cubes. Floating cubes on a point. Cubes which are hollow with doors at the top. Click here to read more »

I Just Got Cubed! – Now Its Your Turn

“I want you to play a little game with me. N by the end of it I’m going to know more about you than you know about yourself” said a guy who shall remain nameless.

I thought to myself. Hmmmm he’s using something on me here. But hey I’ll take the bait. What harm could it do right?

After he finished the game with me, not only did I feel he knew more about me, the rapport I had built with him was great and the social energy of our entire group was lifted.

I guess your wondering what I’m talking about huh? I guess your wondering how a guy I had already classed as a friend was able to make himself stand outside of the crowd. N I guess you wondering what it is, that makes me think of him every time I talk about this game. Click here to read more »