In 2008, I needed to start this blog. Because someone (and that someone was going to have to be me) needed to speak about the truth. Someone needed to tell the truth, no matter how blunt, how painful or how terrifying that would be. Read more »
I was dealing with a pretty bad toothache while filming this video, so thankyou for bearing with me. Despite that, I really wanted to get this video out to you =)
While checking over my 800 survey responses to the question “what is your biggest problem when it comes to attracting/approaching/interacting with women”, I found that a lot of you guys were concerned about your looks and were wondering how important they truly were in attracting women.
So I want to give you the truth! And I hate to sound cliché, but its not all about your looks. In fact they have very little to do with how attractive a woman will find you. Click here to read more »
About 2 years I created a videoabout “how to really attract women” – It continues to be one of my most popular dating you tube videos.
Since that time, I have come to some new distinctions which can really help men attract women. I’ve realised that it is not based on all the techniques, but rather its about developing a particular mindset about yourself and women, which in turn will magnetize women to you.
Here are the top three tips I discuss in this video
1) Be proactive and keep pushing for the next step. Resistance is part of the process.
2) Be transparent, you have a unique personality so use it! Get comfortable with who you are, its all you’ve got.
3) Blow as many women out of the water. Get it out of your system. Take the pressure off. Give yourself the approval that you are seeking.
So there are some men that don’t have to lift a finger and seem to be able to attract women like bees to a honey pot.
But they are rare.
I would take a wild stab in the dark and say that these men really only make up 1% of the population.
So where does that leave the other 99% of men?
Usually it ends up with men attempting to approach a woman and it going horribly wrong.Or worse yet.
The anxiety of approaching a woman with thoughts of what she will say or do, prevent you from even saying hello.Well I know it can be a scary world out there.
So I thought what better way to put together a video where I will give you 3 simple steps to start approaching women successfully today!!
Ok so you have all been in that situation before. Where you see a really hot chick.
Finally have the balls to go up and talk to her. But then all of a sudden you find her friend either wisping her away or just being a complete biatch about the whole thing.
Why does this happen? And how can we use this and turn it around to work in our favour?
Isn’t that the ultimate question? Why is that women date bad boys but marry the nice guy?
This was very true to a friend of mine who has NO PROBLEM with men whatsoever. Lets just say that she had flirting and gaining men’s attraction down to the T.
So here she is dating all these great looking men, successful, rich men who because of this were also able to get a lot of women.
In other words she was dating a lot of players and kind of rough and tough guys.So anyways life is all good and then I hear that she is dating this new guy. Things are going pretty strong and they are spending lots of time together.
Then comes the day when I get to meet him and by then they had been going out for quite a while. So I meet him and my jaw drops. But not because of the reason that you think. Not because he is drop dead gorgeous. Not becuase his personality just blew me away.
But because he was NOTHING, NOTHING like the type of guy she had dated before.
Just probably the opposite of it. And here is the thing. You could totally tell that he was a nice sweet and genuine guy. He was not going to mess around with her. He was the real deal!
So many of you are thinking … WHAT??!! WHAT??!!
Why is that? Well thats why you have to watch the video!! Don’t you just hate it when I leave you hanging like that?
You guys asked for it. So I’m just delivering the goods.
What are 3 things that we can learn to really create instant attraction with women. Well if you are a nice guy and what you are doing in the dating scene is not really working for ya. The this would be a great video to watch, because I’ve put some great tips in here.
If you want a sneak peak the 3 points I cover are
1) Being in control
2) Teasing
3) Being unpredictable
If you want to learn more in depth about this, then watch!!
For the gals, this will be a great video for ya, because it will finally give us some answers why we are attracted to certain guys and what really goes on behind the scenes.
So enjoy everybody.
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