Now I’m not saying that I have seen and heard everything in regards to picking up. Far from it. N that’s something I would like to keep that way. However when it comes to dating and attraction there are a couple more things that I know than your average kind of gal.

N you know this can be a little intimidating to guys who are just getting into the whole pick up thing or really are not that confident in girls just yet. It’s easy for me to shoot through their game with a couple of phrases without even trying.

Some guys get a little taken aback when they realize that the same material they have been learning is just as familiar to me. Some guys lose their game right then and there. But some have the balls to go on.

N I’m sure that its just not me. I’m sure girls that are getting hit on constantly also have the same experience. They heard a lot of the pick up lines and many of them have also been the target of guys who are just getting into the game and don’t really know what they are doing. Click here to read more »

Every week or two I will be answering a question from the Girls Ask Guys website. I personally love this place, there are so many questions, articles and things to do and read that cause a lot of inspiration for this blog.

So one of the questions asked on this was;

Girls, is there the perfect time/place to speak to women? Is there a chance to understand the other gender better?

Answer: Isn’t this the most debated topic like ever? What are the best pickup lines? When is the right time to approach a girl? What are the best things you can say to make yourself look cool?

So here is the thing …

The only reason why guys are where they are is because they have been asking the wrong questions!! …

Picking up and attracting the opposite sex isn’t about the way you look, what lines you use and what car you drive. While I will admit they do help .. they are not the end all. Click here to read more »

Girls. Ever wonder why there some chicks that you know, that just seem to be getting all the attention from the guys? They always have someone hitting on them. They always are the first to be picked up at clubs. N pretty much get any guy that they want.

What’s with that? Don’t you find it irritating? Is it because they are better looking? Is it because they have something that you don’t have?

Well yes and no. To the better looking part, well that has something to do with it, but not everything.

But what if I told you, they knew something that you didn’t know …

What if I told you, they did something that you don’t ….

N what is I said, if you figured out what they were doing that you could just get as much attention as your chicky friends could … Click here to read more »

What makes you want to pursue a girl or makes you want to approach her?
Let’s start with the approach. To be honest, I’ve never thought about that …

It is mostly coming from an internal desire, like a spark. You actually see a woman and if you can’t turn your head away. Our paradox is that we feel that desire and the approach anxiety at the same time, so we have to deal with it. Most guys would just walk away at that point, the harder thing to do is to actually beat your approach anxiety and approach the girl.

When you are in an approach situation, you have never met that girl before, so you can’t really know what she is like in person. All you see is how she looks and how she holds herself. Beauty is common, but what really stands out is a girl, that takes care of herself. Go to the gym 2-3 times a week, visit the beauty saloons and etc. you know those stuff better that me, anyway! It will make you feel better and you will have a cooler vibe! Click here to read more »

Girls, I think you have been waiting for this one! As some of you might know I just completed an interview over at Im2ortal’s Blog where I answered a number of questions that from a female perspective that I’m sure lots of guys would want to know.

So as part of that interview, Im2ortal also agreed to answers some questions that i know there are a lot of girls are dying to know! I’m very excited about it, because its very rare when he get to have a look at what goes on in a guy’s head!

N believe me this guy totally know where he is coming from. So in this two part serious we are going to uncover things such as what guys like in a girl, whether its really true if guys are scared of commitment and what we can do about it!!

Everyone ready? ….

Lets get started! Click here to read more »

This is a highly debated topic. I’ve heard the pros. I’ve heard the cons. But now I want some real answers!

So here is the question guys.

Is there middle ground between a nice guy and a player?

Can you only be one or the other? N if such a person does exist, what would he be like and how does he act?

What do I think? Well my belief is that he does exist, but he is rare. And I believe him to be a guy that is predominantly a nice but has learnt how to create attraction.

I believe him to honestly respect women but he is able to attract a myriad of girls by which he can pick the best one for him. Click here to read more »

Ohhh boys are you going to love this one. I came across a very cool article in the Sunday telegraph called “Art of picking up women” that was talking about Attraction Coaches.

See the above picture there? Yeh taken in Sydney at a place where I actually hang out a lot. This guy is a PUA, an attraction coach .. and well what can I say he seems to be doing pretty well.

In fact he does look strangely familiar. I might have seen him working the rooms in the various clubs I go out dancing too. Who knows … Anyways so back to this article …

The aim? An experiment – to see if these so called attraction coaches could talk the talk and walk the walk.

The results? Seconds later they were surrounded by attractive women who were hanging off their every word.

Who wants a piece of that? Well guess what? They even got your average joe guy taught him some tricks of the trade and within a couple of hours they had turned the average guy into a complete chick magnet as well. Click here to read more »

This post I have to admit is inspired by Paige Parker the author of the e-book Dating Without Drama. She sends out a weekly newsletter that always answers some very valuable questions that her readers have.  One of the articles that I was reading from her .. was called “Things that can freak any guy out”.

After I finished a quiet chuckle, it really made me think about this issue.When it comes to dating there are so many rules and so many things that we could get totally wrong. The problem with girls, is that we start acting too needy and too commitment ready.
The problem with guys is that they start acting too needy and too wussy. In some ways you can see the similarities in this situation.But in this post I really wanted to cover some of the things, which I believe chicks do wrong when it comes to casually dating someone. Click here to read more »

So we have all seen the movies. Guy meets girl. Guy heads over head heels in love with girl. Girl feels the same way. They get together, get married, settle down and have a family.

Ohhh and lets not forget the happily ever after part. So when we snap back to reality, for the single people out there, life doesn’t really seem to work that way.

Firstly the only prince charming that comes your way is the mail man. And he ain’t that cute. Secondly when you do meet a guy you really like, he doesn’t end up feeling the same way about you. Thirdly for some reason you have plenty of friends that are boys, but not boyfriends.

Well I’m here to say that finding love shouldn’t and isn’t that hard, but why is it that sometimes we find ourselves in situation B that i described? Well i think that its because we for some reason have in our mind that these fairy tales never happen, that we have to go out there an actively find a man/women whatever. Click here to read more »

Recently I have been commenting on a relationship blog and there are a number of interesting and somewhat controversial topics that have come up. I have received many responses to my post on there called “You are going to have to speak “HER” language in getting her to like you”

Here we are debating a number of things mainly about the reason as to why there should be a dating game at all and why women feel they are entitled to continually test men. Here is my response to all the comments I have received.
So lets get something straight first. Dating as a game. It may not be what you guys are all thinking. The dating game is not about a set of rules that one must abide by. It is not about being fake. Its not about having fun by playing with someone’s emotions to make yourself feel better.  Click here to read more »