I’ll Be Back …

Hey guys,

I just wanted to let you know, that I will be out of the country traveling for the next three weeks. I’m set to get back in Mid April and I look to updating you with more blog posts then.

For those of you that can’t wait here is the latest E-zine article:

Or, alternatively you can check out some of my favorite (and by the looks of the comments some of your favorites) posts.

Where Are All The Single Women?

How To Impress A Girl – By Not Impressing Her At ALL!

4 Ways to Maintain Attraction In A Relationship …

The Irrelevance of Sexual Compatibility! …

The Masculine Man and The Feminine Woman

How To Tell She Is Emotionally Immature …

The Difference Between Attraction And Relationship Skills

And, for those of you concerned, don’t worry, I won’t be disappearing off the face of the planet any time soon (just visiting a part of it).

Take care guys,

And, I’ll be in touch with you all soon,

Hot Alpha Female

A Good Place To Start …

A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

- Lao-tzu

Hello and welcome! This may or may not be the first time that you are stopping by here but I want this to be a place where you can visit and will continue to visit regularly.

You may have come here for various different reasons, whatever they are, I want you to realize that in the process of learning how to relate better to women you are going to have to learn to better relate with yourself.

Here is a really great starting point to bring you up to speed on how you can create and maintain attraction with women in the long term. Some posts will take a few minutes to read, some will take longer. I make one promise – once you have read these posts you will know more about attracting a woman than 90% of men out there. Click here to read more »

Get Inside Her Heart & Mind: Discussions …

Alright, so I know that it’s not exactly a forum. But, it’s the closest thing to one that I can produce right about now. I hope you enjoyed going through “Get Inside Her Heart and Mind” and got some valuable insights that you can APPLY! Please feel free to share your insights here. If you had a great experience you would like to share (I would love to read it!). You can also post the ONE action that you are going to get started on right now (and be held accountable for it, right here). Alternatively, if you have a question about one of the insights or about dating and relationships in general please post your comment here, too. Basically, what I’m saying that anything and everything is welcome here – so GO FOR IT!

Let the sharing begin!

P.S If you had a personal success that you achieved BECAUSE of reading this book – I would also love to read it and then proceed to share with everyone else how awesome you are! =P


Hot Alpha Female Website MAKEOVER!

So for my loyal readers, you may have realised that I have moved off blogger and onto my own BLOG! Yes, that’s right, Hot Alpha Female “The Blog” has undergone a MAJOR overhaul (I don’t know what other makeover you were thinking about!)

So hope you guys like the look and feel of this website. I really wanted something that was more user friendly and easier on the eyes, so you guys can find what you want … and find it fast!

Like with all new things, there are heaps of little bugs I need to iron out, but don’t worry I’m totally onto it! Click here to read more »

How To Tell What He Is Really THINKING!

Got ya with that headline right? Come-on, I’m a chick, I know the conversations we have over coffee or breakfast with the girlfriends, trying to figure out exactly what Mr. A is thinking and what he meant by saying that or doing this.

I must admit that girls love to fantasize. We love to make up stories in our head and hope for the best that it will turn out like that in reality.

The truth is, this is probably the number one cause for drama in a girls dating or relationship life, because it sets up unrealistic expectations or outcomes which cannot really be controlled.

Usually a girls thinking goes along like this, “If only I knew what he really meant, when he said this, or looked at me that way. If I really knew then I would be happy, or I wouldn’t have to worry”.

No wonder dating and relationships can be so agonizing! That’s torture right there. Because the truth is, even if a guy tells you straight out what he is thinking, it still might not be the truth! You will still colour it with your perceptions, your beliefs and all these filtering systems in your mind.
Click here to read more »

“Secrets To Triggering Attraction Guide” FAQ

Q: I purchased your guide where can I download it?
A:If you logged into your PayPal account to purchase my guide – after you have made your purchase – PayPal will automatically redirect you to the download page. Also an email will be automatically sent out to the primary email attached to the PAYPAL account you purchased the product with.
A: If you paid by credit card after this is complete you would have been taken to a PayPal thank you page. On that page there is a yellow button called “return to merchant”. If you click on that it will take you to the page where you can download your guide.

Q: My internet was interrupted during the transaction and now I haven’t received anything from you.
A: Sometimes if you have an internet interruption your $1 payment will have gone through, but your email may not be registered on my list and therefore you will RECEIVE nothing from me. If you have purchased your guide and have not received anything from me, simply contact me via my form and I’ll fix it up for you within 24 hours =)

Q: I still can’t find the email which allows me to download the guide.
A: First check your SPAM or JUNK Inbox in your email and look for something from “Hot Alpha Female” in case my has ended up there.
A: If you still find nothing – No problem – contact me via this form and include the email address you used to purchase your guide and I will fix it for you.

Q: Will you be sending me more stuff?
A: Yes, I have a series of bonus material and a jam packed newsletter that will accompany my guide to give you the latest advice on attracting women.

Q: Can I change the email that you will be sending your newsletters and bonuses to?
A: The email I will be sending all this juicy content to, is the PAYPAL email that you used to purchase the guide – at the moment this is the only way I have been able to set it up. To change the email address you can do 2 things;

  • First option – You can change the primary email address of PayPal so it will go to a more current email address that your prefer
  • Second option – You can click on the manage subscription option at the bottom of each newsletter and update all your details from there.

If your question isn’t answered above or you have something else you would like to add – I would love to hear it. So leave a comment below!

Bonus Video – 4 Common Mistakes Men Make When Attracting Women!

Mistake Number 1: Not going after what you want. Second guessing your words and your actions all out of the fear of rejection or humiliation

“Just Friends” 2005 – Bedroom scene where the main character doesn’t take the opportunity to sleep with his friend (who he clearly has feelings for). You can check out the scene right here ….(scene starts at 4:00)

Solution: Take the opportunity that is in front of you. Be courageous and move forward. Get used to doing things that move you outside your comfort zone, they don’t have to be associate with women – just things that scare you a little. You aim to become more familiar with the feelings associated with the unfamiliar.

Mistake Number 2: Trying to get a girl to like you – using logic.

Trying to rationale with a girl how this “other guy” is a jerk – won’t work.
Making sure you are ALWAYS there for her – may not work in the initial stages

Solution: Want to mix certainty (her trust and comfort with you) with uncertainty (mystery and anticipation) – you need both in equal doses to create that attraction. Remember attraction is an emotional not a rationale experience for a woman.

Mistake Number 3: Being scared to be a fence pusher. This means interacting with every woman and leaving her with a neutral feel about her. You don’t want to upset her, you don’t want to step up so that she can really see and experience all the good things you have to offer. A woman cannot be attracted to a man that she feels neutral about. Operate on the basis of she will either love me, or she will hate me. Push her off that fence. Don’t be afraid to rock the boat.

Solution: Know and define the type of woman you want to interact with. Become the kind of man that the woman you want – would be attracted to. Remember, there comes a point where dating multiple women becomes a lot more work than fun. You only need to find ONE good quality woman out there. So start getting specific.

Mistake Number 4: Giving into her because you think it will make her happy and more attracted to you. Women like men who stand up for themselves. Women like men who have their own optioning and sense of self. The more you give in to her – the less she will be attracted to you.

Giving in is agreeing with her – when you really don’t giving is letting her walk over you – when you really want to say something.
Giving in is saying yes – when you really want to say NO.

Solution: Practice saying NO. Remember that you are the qualifier – you get to decide if you want to put up with this. Remember that you have the power. Instead make sure to challenge her. Throw back her comments or requests. Call her out on it when she is making a disrespectful request. Use it as material to tease her with it. Know what you will say yes and no to. Lay down boundaries that adhere to these.

Have comments, questions or something to add? Have your say!

Hot Alpha Female

Five Minute Find A Man Monday’s – 3 Surefire Ways To Get Noticed

Hey Girlies,

Well I’m sure that may of you that are reading this are smart, beautiful go getter girls who have the world at your feet.

But for some reason you can’t seem to get the guys to notice you, give you the attention you deserve and want to start dating you or have a relationship with you.

So are the girls that are being oogled and googled by guys any different from the girls that are not. Is it all just based on looks? AKA being really good looking?

Well I think NOT!

Well thats why I have written 3 surefire ways you can start getting noticed more, not only by guys but by the world.

Kool huh? You girls should try it and let me know how you go.

Hot Alpha Female

Blogs I LOVE!

Here are a list of some of my most favorite blogs on the internet. Keep a look out here as the list is always expanding!

Andy, creator of “Womanology” is a 42 year old with plenty of dating experience. What I love most about this blog is that Andy has clearly spent YEARS studying women and reflecting on his past experiences. Every week he shares a new story from his past that is usually insightful, intelligent, interesting, and even a little humorous.