Firstly a word about understanding women. Women are one of those things that you either “get” or you don’t “get”.

When you “get” it … when you know what attracts them, turns them on, keeps them interested and happy …. then the only problem you’ll really have, is finding the right kind of woman that is available and can keep up with you.

Still a problem. But a better quality problem.

Now if you don’t get it(and I know there are a lot of guys that fall into this category) understanding, dating and maintaining women can be a futile as a fat kid trying to go on health kick.

You know what you want, but you don’t think you can have it. At one point you think you have it all figured out and then *WHAM!* she throws out a wild card.

So how can we solve this problem? Well simply put, you must get yourself to the point where you “get” women. Now I’m a full supporter of the PUA or the Pick UP Artist community. Because learning about, attracting and dating, really is a skill. However I have to add here, that technique isn’t all you need.
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Hey guys.Ok so I have to be honest. Some of you may have noticed that I’ve been away. The truth is I have been here the whole time, racking my brain as to what to write about. I have about 10 or 12 half written posts which I just can’t bear to finish. My mind is heavy, my writing is slow. And for the life of me, I just couldn’t figure out what was going on.

So I guess I just have to be honest with you guys, clear my chest and free my mind. About three months ago I just started seeing this really special guy. A guy who already has enriched my life is so many ways and taught me more about relationships in the last 3 months than in the last 3 years.
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I have to admit this was a distinction that a respected member on the forum RSDNation “Rockavon” made on one of his posts.

I love rsdnation. Its a great high traffic forum filled with aspiring “Pick Up Artists” as well as high quality instructors which facilitates some great quality content, and pretty much everything you would want to know or would need to know about how to get better with women.

So I know we have many debates about the Bad Boy vs Nice Guy. Well I’m here to talk about a paradigm shift and to say that maybe its neither that is getting the girls.

So if its not the bad boys. And its not the nice guys. Who is really winning? Well the Good Guy. Rockavon shares some of the characteristics of a Good Guy.

Boys and Girls, please read on and tell me what you think.

The Good Guy

He gets out of the house and is really social.

He uses his value based reality to naturally become selective.

He encourages the girl to GAME him.
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Ever noticed someone say a comment about their dating life like ” All the good men are taken”, “I just can’t seem to find a nice guy”, “All the hot girls are snobs”, “Everyone wants to be my friend, yet no-one wants to date me” …..

You know I could go on and on and on and on ….

But really the list is endless.

Well here is what I have to say about that.

You are putting it on YOURSELF and the only one to blame for getting whatever it is that you are getting is YOU.

And YES in case you didn’t notice. I can be blunt. In fact I like being blunt.

Because it gets your attention.

So here is the thing that I wanted to share with you guys. Whatever it is that you expect out of your relationships is what you are going to get. Because that is all that you are going to see.

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Three Words

Bond … James Bond …

Yep. I’m officially putting it out there. James Bond. He totally does it for me.

But I seem to find it hard to say that all James Bonds are equally as hot as each other. I mean because while the character of him is the same, the different actors all add a different flavor to him.

N here is the little secret that I’m going to let you in one. I have not been a fan of James Bond. I mean none of them really did it for it. I found Pierce Brosnan to be a little slow and really not that hot.

But this new Bond. Our current Bond. Daniel Craig. Well he has just got it down pat. Now HE is one hot guy who has the attitude of an ultimate natural or well developed pick up artist.

Throughout the movie Casino Royale there were some fabulous lines that were cracked that just made me chuckle and which I found delightfully funny. Click here to read more »

For those of that are reading this post for the first time. Then read “I Just Got Cubed, Now It’s Your Turn“. Because otherwise this is seriously going to be a bit of a spoiler!

So for those of you that have already had a look at my first post. Then here are the results. N sorry that I kept some of you waiting!!

Landscape
The landscape represents how you see your world. Are there mountains in the distance that are blocking your view. Is it lush and green? How do you feel within this landscape. Is it welcoming?

Cube
The cube actually represents yourself =) So remember to note the relation of the cube to the landscape. Is it big or small? The position of the cube is also important. Floating cubes actually represent ideas people, who can be a little lofty. Solid cubes signify stability. The color is also important as well. But more importantly its how you feel about that color. When you look at that cube, do you feel peaceful or happy. Some of the cubes that I have come across, are big sandstone cubes. Floating cubes on a point. Cubes which are hollow with doors at the top. Click here to read more »