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A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

- Lao-tzu

Hello and welcome! This may or may not be the first time that you are stopping by here but I want this to be a place where you can visit and will continue to visit regularly.

You may have come here for various different reasons, whatever they are, I want you to realize that in the process of learning how to relate better to women you are going to have to learn to better relate with yourself.

Here is a really great starting point to bring you up to speed on how you can create and maintain attraction with women in the long term. Some posts will take a few minutes to read, some will take longer. I make one promise – once you have read these posts you will know more about attracting a woman than 90% of men out there. Click here to read more »

Secrets To Gauging And Triggering A Woman’s Attraction (You’ve got 72 hours …)

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A lot of you guys came up with the same question over and over again. How do I know if she is really interested in me? What are the signs? How do I know where she is at? So, I decided to write you a report which answers many of these different questions.

As a BONUS for the next 72 hours I will also be giving you access to part of an interview I recorded with Marni (The WingGirlMethod) all about sh*t testing. Why it happens, what is looks like and how you can prevent it.

This bonus will be ending 2nd April 2011 Saturday 8:00PM (PST)

Also remember that for the next 72 hours there will be sneak peak twitter updates of content straight from the report!

I will see you guys next week!

P.s. For those of you that have already purchased the guide and want to leave your comments, success stories or testimonials you can do so just below!

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Misconceptions of the Alpha Male!

When learning how to develop attraction with a woman, one of the first things that you are told is to learn to develop Alpha Male characteristics or become the ultimate alpha man.

And then usually the description you will here will be the antithesis of everything that a Beta Male represents. Therefore you hear that an Alpha Male is the exact opposite of a man that is wussy, approval seeking, predictable, needy, indecisive and uncertain about himself and the experiences around him.

So does that really mean that an Alpha Male is unpredictable, strongly dominant, a risk taker, outspoken and loves the centre of attention?

I think that there is a huge risk is assuming that an Alpha is just the pure opposite to a Beta male. Especially since there is only a small minority of people who could really be classified an ultra Alpha and ultra Beta. Majority of people are on a medium of this scale. The risk also comes from the fact that to truly create and maintain interest with a woman, one must display certain Alpha (dominance, leadership, assertiveness) and certain Beta characteristics (compassion, empathy, understanding, supportiveness). One must learn to appreciate both.

I was reading an article on askmen.com by Ross Jefferies who gave me inspiration from this post. Here is what he says … Click here to read more »

How To Really Attract Women Revisited!

About 2 years I created a video about “how to really attract women” – It continues to be one of my most popular dating you tube videos.

Since that time, I have come to some new distinctions which can really help men attract women. I’ve realised that it is not based on all the techniques, but rather its about developing a particular mindset about yourself and women, which in turn will magnetize women to you.

Here are the top three tips I discuss in this video

1) Be proactive and keep pushing for the next step. Resistance is part of the process.

2) Be transparent, you have a unique personality so use it! Get comfortable with who you are, its all you’ve got.

3) Blow as many women out of the water. Get it out of your system. Take the pressure off. Give yourself the approval that you are seeking.

Enjoy guys,

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How To Talk To Girls – If A 9 Year Old Can Do It – So Can You!

Yep thats right.

Little nine year old Alec Greven successful author of How to Talk to Girls has figured out and now shows you how to talk to girls. If he can do it then so can you!

No more complaining to me about how hard it is to approach women.

Here is a nine year old who can do it better than you! Where are all your excuses now?

So what are some of the tips he has ….

“The best choice for most boys is a regular girl. Remember, some pretty girls are cold hearted when it comes to boys. Don’t let them get to you.”

“If I say hi and you say hi back, we’re probably off to a good start”

It sound so simple doesn’t it?

Ever heard the acronym KISS? Click here to read more »

Five Minute Find A Woman Wednesdays – Why Women Date Bad Boys And Marry Nice Guys


Isn’t that the ultimate question? Why is that women date bad boys but marry the nice guy?

This was very true to a friend of mine who has NO PROBLEM with men whatsoever. Lets just say that she had flirting and gaining men’s attraction down to the T.

So here she is dating all these great looking men, successful, rich men who because of this were also able to get a lot of women.

In other words she was dating a lot of players and kind of rough and tough guys.So anyways life is all good and then I hear that she is dating this new guy. Things are going pretty strong and they are spending lots of time together.

Then comes the day when I get to meet him and by then they had been going out for quite a while. So I meet him and my jaw drops. But not because of the reason that you think. Not because he is drop dead gorgeous. Not becuase his personality just blew me away.

But because he was NOTHING, NOTHING like the type of guy she had dated before.

Just probably the opposite of it. And here is the thing. You could totally tell that he was a nice sweet and genuine guy. He was not going to mess around with her. He was the real deal!

So many of you are thinking … WHAT??!! WHAT??!!

Why is that? Well thats why you have to watch the video!! Don’t you just hate it when I leave you hanging like that?

For my subscribers click here

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Why A Man Stays When A Woman Has Her Storm

So a lot of you have already read my last post and made some very insightful and interesting comments.

Ok that was the nice way of putting it.

A lot of you don’t agree with what I have just said.

Maybe this is an area which i cannot be so articulate in as much as I would like to.

So I’m adding this video, so that maybe you guys will see the point that I’m attempting to get across.

For men to stand by their women they love … no matter what.

Enjoy

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The Ultimate Cube Spoiler!

For those of that are reading this post for the first time. Then read “I Just Got Cubed, Now It’s Your Turn“. Because otherwise this is seriously going to be a bit of a spoiler!

So for those of you that have already had a look at my first post. Then here are the results. N sorry that I kept some of you waiting!!

Landscape
The landscape represents how you see your world. Are there mountains in the distance that are blocking your view. Is it lush and green? How do you feel within this landscape. Is it welcoming?

Cube
The cube actually represents yourself =) So remember to note the relation of the cube to the landscape. Is it big or small? The position of the cube is also important. Floating cubes actually represent ideas people, who can be a little lofty. Solid cubes signify stability. The color is also important as well. But more importantly its how you feel about that color. When you look at that cube, do you feel peaceful or happy. Some of the cubes that I have come across, are big sandstone cubes. Floating cubes on a point. Cubes which are hollow with doors at the top. Click here to read more »

I Just Got Cubed! – Now Its Your Turn

“I want you to play a little game with me. N by the end of it I’m going to know more about you than you know about yourself” said a guy who shall remain nameless.

I thought to myself. Hmmmm he’s using something on me here. But hey I’ll take the bait. What harm could it do right?

After he finished the game with me, not only did I feel he knew more about me, the rapport I had built with him was great and the social energy of our entire group was lifted.

I guess your wondering what I’m talking about huh? I guess your wondering how a guy I had already classed as a friend was able to make himself stand outside of the crowd. N I guess you wondering what it is, that makes me think of him every time I talk about this game. Click here to read more »

Why Don’t You date Youself?! – The Power Of A Magnetic Personality

Lance found me this very cool post called “Men need to grow up?!” which talks about what makes us more attractive to the opposite sex? Well as you know I have a lot of say about this!

So hope you guys ready!! Lets dive into it! …

How many times do we hear people complain that they are single? That they are lonely? That they are just plain desperate? Is it because they are unattractive?

Well in my answer to that I would say Yes and No.

So here is the thing guys.

I’m going to let you in on a little secret.

I’m going to tell you the truth once and for all… Click here to read more »