Let’s answer the age old question, “Why do women like drama?” Now, if you ask a typical woman this, she will respond with quite a shocked look on her face and say something like, “Not all women like drama!!” And, then she would probably hint somehow that she was the exception. To which I would warn you that it’s the woman who say things like this – that are actually more inclined to engage in extremely dramatic behavior. And, drama can come in all sorts of forms. Sometimes it’s obvious and other times much more subtle than you could ever imagine.
So, let me eliminate all the confusion when I say, “ALL woman want and need attention!” Whether it’s overt or covert please just understand that on the core biological and primal level of a woman: it’s what she truly craves.
It’s my belief these subconscious primal urges aid a woman to elicit the help of men or women around them. Women seek attention and they test to see how much attention they can attract so they can be rest assured that when a time comes where they need HELP, they will be able to effortlessly receive it.
I believe attention seeking is a form of basic survival for a woman. Click here to read more »
Well that sounds like a completely bratty statement doesn’t it? And you want to know the truth? Well the truth is, this phrase “I’m only high maintenance, if you don’t maintain me” came out of my mouth whilst talking to a friend recently. And it’s my guess women would admit this, if they really understood how perfectly it surmised how they felt.
So let me break it down for you guys. Let me show you: what this really means, how you can overcome it, and how to apply it. I will show you a proactive approach, which will minimize the level of drama, testing, and needy behavior with ANY woman.
Now I can’t attribute this theory entirely to myself. In fact this theory is dedicated to a man who actually has real time experience of how low maintenance women can truly be. This is dedicated to a man who actually finds it amusing to see other men around him being constantly tested. He is incredibly insightful and in the near future I may steal him for an interview to pick his brains and share it with you guys.
So what is this theory? If you are truly able to give a woman what she “needs” rather than what she says she “wants” you can proactively bypass and predict any shit tests or drama that she may be giving you. Click here to read more »
Why would you want to date a strong independent woman? She’s fun, she’s feisty and she has a mind of her own. She knows how to take care of herself, the people around her and her life. She can match you on your level, inspire you to grow and she can contribute as well as she can receive. She knows and understands her worth and she has the self esteem to back it up. You can be satisfied in knowing that if she is with you, its by her choice. Because she wants to be with you, rather than because she feels she needs to be with you (the neediness and dependence is what causes most of the drama).
But what does a strong independent women really need to spark her interest and ignite her fire?
Match her on her level
Now strong and independent woman are used to doing a lot of everything on her own. She knows how to take care of herself and the people around her very well. In fact she may be “extremely comfortable” with the ease at which she feels she can manage her life. Therefore when you approach and interact with these women initially they can seem to have a “cool” disposition towards you. They may give you some challenging situations and conversations that are intended to put you off guard. And you can’t blame her for this, she is simply seeing if you are a guy that can handle her independence. She wants to know that you will encourage it, nurture it, rather than overrun it, or try to take it away from her. Click here to read more »
Got ya with that headline right? Come-on, I’m a chick, I know the conversations we have over coffee or breakfast with the girlfriends, trying to figure out exactly what Mr. A is thinking and what he meant by saying that or doing this.
I must admit that girls love to fantasize. We love to make up stories in our head and hope for the best that it will turn out like that in reality.
The truth is, this is probably the number one cause for drama in a girls dating or relationship life, because it sets up unrealistic expectations or outcomes which cannot really be controlled.
Usually a girls thinking goes along like this, “If only I knew what he really meant, when he said this, or looked at me that way. If I really knew then I would be happy, or I wouldn’t have to worry”.
No wonder dating and relationships can be so agonizing! That’s torture right there. Because the truth is, even if a guy tells you straight out what he is thinking, it still might not be the truth! You will still colour it with your perceptions, your beliefs and all these filtering systems in your mind.
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Now I’m sure after a few seconds of googling that you will be able to find every book, article and seminar under the sun that will tell you how to find the right guy/girl.
Well the truth is, by the 10th article you’ve read, you realise that all the advice is all the same all CR*P.
Its boring. Its cliché. Its unrealistic. It doesn’t work.
I’m all about a straight forwards and practical approach these days (No BS approach), so what are all the other people saying?
1) Make a list of your ideal partner
2) Get comfortable with single life
3) Be the person you want to attract
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Are older women really more desperate?
Are older men really more attractive?
Well I just read in an recent Daily Telegraph paper that how hot we really “think” we are is relative to our age.
Now that statement may seem really obvious. But let me explain.
Now I sure all the young girlies who are reading this, while they may have some boy problems really don’t have too much of a shortage of choice.
Then all of a sudden when they grow older and reach the age of 33-34 they start to notice that its that little bit harder to score a guy.
Is that just because guys don’t really go for older women? Is that just because guys don’t like women with more life experience?
What is the reason for this?
Well girls you are going to love these stats.
This is in Australia so the stats may be a little different in the states. But for single women from ages 15-17 there is an oversupply of single men of 10%, peaking at 23% when a single woman reaches the age of 25.
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You can have your cake and eat it too!
I’m going to obliterate one of the common fallacies many men and women have out there.
Recently I just finished watching the movie “Click” and “The Family Man”.
yes yes I know they are so “not this year” but they were really good movies.
Now the one thing that I noticed as a reoccurring theme in these movies was that the main characters both male, had to make the choice between having a successful career or having a successful family life.
Isn’t this an issue that many of us have to face in modern times?
Should we go after the money? Or should we go after the family life?
For women this is especially a big issue.
Many women today are choosing to put their careers in front of their family life. Getting married later, choosing to have kids once they are financially independent, some opting not to have kids at all.
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Like I said before. The term Hot Alpha Female is always unfolding for me. But here is something that I have uncovered recently.
Its all a sham! Hahaha …. Well ok a little bit of it is a sham.
Want to know why?
Well let me explain.
Maybe because I thought Hot Alpha Female, was a completely new concept, I thought it was a brainwave that no one had ever thought of before.
Apparently, I’m still learning a lot. Apparently I don’t know it all. And I think that’s a good thing, because otherwise I would never learn anything new.
SO what brought this on? Well the book called Venus on Top: Women Who Are Born to Lead and the Men Who Love Them, changed that for me!
Like hello?! What have I been missing this whole time! So here is another realization that I have come to, which a lot of alpha women will have to realize. And trust me, I was fighting this one for a long time. Click here to read more »
I just stated the number one dating problem of the 21st century.
and all in 7 words and less ….
Now let me explain this concept in a bedtime story.
Once upon a time in a land far far away ….
There was a man named Magnus and a woman named Sugar. Now they did not at the time know each other but both equally hated their parents for giving them such flaky names.
Now Magnus had the world at his feet. His parents were the rulers of the world and he was obviously heir to the thrown. In fact his father was handing over the rule of the kingdom the very next year.
Now Magnus was a masculine kind of guy. He loved to ride his horses, go on hunting trips and talk about manly stories with his other manly rough and tough buddies over beer about the latest swordfight. I’m sure there was plenty of grunting involved too. Click here to read more »
Firstly thanks for all the great comments that I’m getting from all of you! I love you all!
Secondly if you don’t know a lot has been happening on this blog recently. This is all part of my commitment to make this one of the top dating blogs on the internet.
Thirdly very soon I will be MOVING!! That’s right. You heard me! To my own domain name, even though I love blogger, its time to get on my own two feet. So I will let you know when the new site is up and running.
Also my blog is NOW also available over http://scandalouswomen.com – Please go and have a look at it =)
Fourthly (is that a term?) I would love for you guys to bookmark me if you love what you are reading or subscribe to my blog so that you are updated frequently when I come out with something new.
Fifthly like I said before. Hot Alpha Female is going to be posting much more regularly! So I thought what better way then to let you guys know what my schedule is!
Saturday’s – Hot New Post
Wednesday’s – New Video
So now lets get to the post! Do guys really like being asked out first? Click here to read more »