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So, I’m sure that in your endeavors to learn how to become more attractive to women, you read and heard about all the different techniques, tips, and tricks on how to make a woman like you and want to sleep with you.

And, it’s my guess that after you have read and listened to all these different techniques, you think to yourself, “Why do I always seem to be catching up?”, “Why is that I have to do so much chasing and attracting?”, or “Why can’t all the women come to me without me having to really do anything?”

Well, maybe that last fantasy could turn into a reality. In fact, I’ve seen it happen. I’ve seen men out there who actually have women actually chasing them! Imagine this for a second: What if you could experience a woman actually getting nervous around YOU! What if they were the ones that were handing their phone numbers to you without you even ASKING! What if women were the ones trying every trick in the book to sleep with you?

Some of you might be thinking right now, “That’s impossible!” I assure you that it’s not. There are many times I have come across men like this. And, in case you are wondering, no they are not models, super rich, super powerful, or really “well hung”. So, if any of those excuses don’t apply, then what is it that can potentially drive a woman crazy? (In a good way).

This is a man who has it really together. He has the power and the presence to attract women effortlessly. This kind of man has a different type of problem when it comes to women. Instead of his question being, “How can I attract a good quality woman”, or “How can I get laid?”, or “How do I attract that hot chick over there?” – his question is: “Where can I find a woman that is worth my time?”, “Where can I find the woman that doesn’t throw herself at me?”, or “Where can I find a woman who is really appealing to me?”

His problems become about finding a quality woman, rather than attracting women in general. In fact, he has no problem getting the attention of women. In fact, he even gets attention from women even when he doesn’t want it. In fact, he has to go out of his way sometimes to avoid the attention of women.

If there is any problem or challenge that I want you guys to have, it’s that one! I want to get emails from you along the lines of “Sh*t HAF, your sh*t actually works. I have all these girls after me that are acting like Justin Bieber fans – what the hell do I do?!”

Those emails will completely thrill me! And, to be honest, I will have a good laugh before I sent you back a thank you email. So, what might it really take for a man to have such a powerful affect on women? Well, I would say that there are a few components that will really help you get here:

1) Be a man of your word.
This is about integrity first with yourself and second with the people around you. You must engage in your life in such a way that makes you feel at peace with yourself and the world. You must know at the core of your being that you are living the life that you truly want and in the way that you want.

This will give you a sense of power, control, and domination like nothing else. And, it will be something that you can give to yourself. When you are your own source of power and control – the world is literally in your own hands.

Because you can control your own world.

And, it means you are even more powerful than those that rely on external sources to meet their needs of validation and control. Because those types of people’s power comes from something that is contingent on how others behave and act. Their power is in someone else’s hands and it’s something that can be stripped from you in an instant.

There are two things that no one can ever take away from you. That is your gratitude and your wisdom. Those are the only two things that you can truly possess.

So, become a man of your word. When you do, you will find a way to interact with women and the world in an unapologetic manner. You will have nothing to hide from. Nothing to run away from. Nothing in the past that is going to catch up with you. No guilt about anything in the past, present, or the future. You will be your own power source, and women will be drawn to you magnetically.

2) Follow through.
When you say you are going to do something, then do it. No excuses. No waiting. No hesitation. Every single time you put something off, delay, procrastinate, or complete something to only half of your capability, you diminish your personal power. Every time you do something like this, it completely affects your self esteem and your self belief. In learning how to become a man that women will be drawn to magnetically, you will need to learn, grow, and develop.

It is a process. And, it’s the process of “becoming” that will help you keep this amazing woman in your life once you find her.

Your experiences with women are purely a reflection of issues that you need to heal within yourself. If you are finding that she doesn’t respect you, or she keeps blowing you off – then instead of being angry and frustrated with the process, ask yourself, “What area in my life do I not respect myself?, or “What area in my life do I keep blowing other people off?” This will take a lot of honesty and courage on your behalf, but I have no doubt in my mind that each and every one of you can do this.

In following through on your actions and your words, you build your self esteem and self confidence – and in the process, you will find that not only women but all sorts of people around you will treat you and your time with more respect, too. So remember, don’t just talk a big game – live one because that’s where the real action happens.

I want you guys to get to the point of no return. What do I mean by this? Well, I want to bring you up to the point that when you score an amazing woman you won’t pinch yourself and say, “How the hell did that happen?” Rather, you will exclaim, “I know exactly what I did, and hell YEH it works!”

Most importantly, I want you to truly become the kind of man that naturally attracts great quality women into your life and has the ability to keep them in your life because you know she is a just reflection of the greatness and value that is in you.

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