What to do when all fails (part 2)
So when all fails, here are three other things that you can use to help you avoid a sticky situation.
The first is when you are not sure what to do, display dominance, leadership and assertiveness. When all fails: take the lead, make the decision, and be the leader. If you don’t know how to do this or you have some fears associated with this; it’s time to get a grip on them. If you want to be in a happy fulfilling relationship this is a skill which you are going to have to develop and integrate; so that it becomes a natural part of the way you live your life.
The second tip is always assume that “she is interested in you.” Yes, you heard me right! I have so many emails from you guys asking me what you should do. Put that power back into YOUR control. You know what to do. Stop second guessing yourself. Learn to trust your decisions. When you assume she is interested in you, you can put yourself back into the game and wear confidence on your sleeve. “No second guessing” equals more “self assurance” and “purpose” in your actions. These are all good things, which are required when attracting women.
The third tip is be prepared to improvise! Be prepared for when things don’t work out the way you expected them to. If you need a plan, then have a plan A, plan B, plan C, and plan D. If it gives you more confidence and assurance, do it! Also be prepared to be flexible and go with the moment. Use things that didn’t turn out the way you expected them to: connect, tease, and interact with her on deeper levels. See them as opportunities rather than challenges.
Hot Alpha Female
Wasn’t paying too much attention to your tips (I’m sure they are helpful) I was more busy trying to figure out your dramatic accent. Hat exactly is it… a cross between a Yankee and an Aussie??
Hi Max,
It’s Australian =)
Hot Alpha Female
Hot;
Too often we have a this idea of the perfect way our plan will play out , a desperate attachment to a specific outcome and then we are disappointed if the results aren’t as anticipated.
Great point about putting yourself out there and getting in the game! If you have it in your mind that rejection is part of the learning process, and not viewed as failure,is one giant step towards unleashing ones natural confidence.
I liked what you had to say about using a bad result from a plan as a way to connect… brilliant stuff
Serendipity = the faculty of making fortunate discoveries by accident
J.
btw hot, I have always had a thing for an aussie accent and yours is no exception.