REVISITED! How Important Are Looks To Women … Really?!
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I recently got together with Marni creator and owner of “Wing Girl Method”. We chatted about various different intriguing and interesting topics related to attracting and maintaining attraction with women.
She has been working with top dating experts and coaching men on attracting women for the past 7 years. So we really enjoyed getting stuck into this interview and talking about things that really mattered to men.
We covered things like:
*The importance of looks to women
*The difference between what women will say and what they will actually do
*Two of the most hurtful words any woman can hear
*What really matters when attracting and interacting with women.
Hope you guys enjoy, leave your comments, feel free to check out her site for more information and I’ll be in touch soon!
Hot Alpha Female
I’ve met women before and sparked up conversations that have lasted several hours. Based on your video, are you telling me that those women were attracted to me? I walked away from them without asking for their numbers. I didn’t think I had a shot in hell. Did I blow it?
@Deejay
as you said “several hours”
How do I say? now you know what to do next time … ask for their number.
the biggest issue I noticed with the avg guy is that they cant spark or let alone hold a conversation, so you’re starting real good.
Rock n roll
@Romyl
That’s my point. I didn’t know whether or not any of them were interested. We just talked. I’m not good at reading “hints”. I just figured they weren’t interested since they didn’t ask me for my number. Now from what these ladies are saying, that was a missed opportunity.
@Deejay
Yeah, to what I am aware of, you may call this ‘weirdly cool’ but if she is talking to you she is interested … you just have the fun role to find out, how interested she really is.
rock n roll
@Deejay: The best way to know if a woman is interested in you, is finding out how she responds when you initiate more contact with her. Whether that being continuing the conversation with her another time, grabbing her digits, getting her on a date.
Start with small initiatives and if she is following you on those, she is more likely going to get comply when you ask her on a date and so on and so forth.
I was also remind you to be more proactive. Don’t wait for her to give you hints and signals. You lead the way and see if she follows.
@Romyl: Thanks for helping out a reader. I agree. Initiate and then see how she responds =)
Hot Alpha Female
Why does this have to be so complicated? What ever happen to check yes if you like me? I’ve burned so many times that I can’t tell if a girl likes me as more than a friend.
@Deejay: When you mean burned … you mean because you didn’t know that they didn’t like you … you didn’t make a move on them? Is there something you could do differently to prevent that happening in the future?
Hot Alpha Female
Well, I’m not sure. Maybe if I had more game. I’ve tried every advice from friends, internet, etc. I always get told that they have boyfriends or that they aren’t looking to date right now, so I kind of gave up.
Hey Jennifer,
Wow, you look amazing – Its just that I really admire women with style and presence : )
Cool post… it makes perfect sense although while traits like alpha body language (posture, relaxed, eye contact, smiling), personality, good game, cheeky/cocky, challenging, presence, uber inner game results in great GF’s in UK, USA and even foreigners visiting Australia – the fact is Aussie girls generally are soooo stuck up sexually, aloof, needy, insecure, bland, uninteresting, unadventurous, undisciplined, preoccupied, too worried what other people think/judge, pretentious (everyone says this, unfortunately!).
Sure we plough on, be a little flirty, express our interest, push pull, have fun, totally unappologetic, force IOI and approach, etc so I understand where Deejay is coming from. For example, recently some female colleagues told me never to approach a woman until you get a signal/invitation (I approach warmly direct/indirect…). They also say never to touch a girl (kino) for at least an hour because it is too ‘creepy’ – although I kino early on (including hi-5, shake hands, ring finger routine, spin the girl, thumb wrestle) the girl does not run away.
I really admire your posts Jennifer (Hot Alpha Female) – I’ll perservere and have fun with it with game because I’d rather be in the game than sit on the sidelines like the AFC. To reiterate: game had bought great results overseas but applying this in Aust. and obtaining the same results is like a totally different planet = receive significant IOD’s… maybe we are too confident Put me on one of your courses : )
All the best
Mick
The best guy in the group….’What?’