Firstly a word about understanding women. Women are one of those things that you either “get” or you don’t “get”.

When you “get” it … when you know what attracts them, turns them on, keeps them interested and happy …. then the only problem you’ll really have, is finding the right kind of woman that is available and can keep up with you.

Still a problem. But a better quality problem.

Now if you don’t get it(and I know there are a lot of guys that fall into this category) understanding, dating and maintaining women can be a futile as a fat kid trying to go on health kick.

You know what you want, but you don’t think you can have it. At one point you think you have it all figured out and then *WHAM!* she throws out a wild card.

So how can we solve this problem? Well simply put, you must get yourself to the point where you “get” women. Now I’m a full supporter of the PUA or the Pick UP Artist community. Because learning about, attracting and dating, really is a skill. However I have to add here, that technique isn’t all you need.

If I give you a 100 of the best pickup lines, teach you how to flirt a little, show you how to overcome any “shit” tests that women put up, do you really think you will be set to “get” women?

The answer is a BIG FAT NO!

I’m sorry to say it, but its the truth. Oh heck, Ok I’ll admit it, that felt good to say =)

And this will be heartening for you guys out there who have tried some pickup techniques and failed miserably. Because until you get to down to the reason “why” you don’t “get” women, then no pickup technique is ever going to save you.

What parts of you, lacks self confidence? What parts of you want to say something that you think “she” will like to hear? What parts of you, want to do the right thing? What parts of you, are afraid of going after what you really want? What parts of you, are afraid of the possible rejection? What parts of you, don’t you think are good enough?

You want to know the truth? Do you want to know the real reason?

The truth why you don’t get women, is because you don’t get yourself.

You don’t know yourself, you don’t trust yourself and parts of you don’t even approve of yourself. So you go out there, pretending that “hey” everything is ok.

And this woman can sense it on you. By the way you talk, by the way you hold yourself, by your nervous laugh. She can sense that you don’t get yourself and that if you can’t even do that, then how can you ever really get her?

If you really want to learn how to attract and continue to maintain attraction with a woman, you are going to have to deal with you first. My friend, you got to get down to the cause of the problem (your limiting beliefs) instead of trying to treat the symptom(lack of women who are attracted and continue to be attracted to you).

Do you get it?

And once you have developed the internal self confidence, one you have removed any limiting beliefs which cause you to approval seek, to hesitate, to take action … your mere presence will attract a woman.

A simple introductory “How’s it going?”, will be enough to spark her curiosity.

When you get to the root of the problem and you find those things within yourself that are ultimately inhibiting the way you really want to act and speak, then you find liberation, a new more confident and somewhat defiant self, that is sexy, masculine and magnetic.

Men and women … Your thoughts?

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