Who Says You Cant Have Your Cake And Eat It Too?
I’m going to obliterate one of the common fallacies many men and women have out there.
Recently I just finished watching the movie “Click” and “The Family Man”.
yes yes I know they are so “not this year” but they were really good movies.
Now the one thing that I noticed as a reoccurring theme in these movies was that the main characters both male, had to make the choice between having a successful career or having a successful family life.
Isn’t this an issue that many of us have to face in modern times?
Should we go after the money? Or should we go after the family life?
For women this is especially a big issue.
Many women today are choosing to put their careers in front of their family life. Getting married later, choosing to have kids once they are financially independent, some opting not to have kids at all.
Many would also associate alpha females as those that are very dominant and driven in the “earning capacity” sector.
So here is where I’m going to talk about what I believe to be the conspiracy.
And do want to know what that is?
Its something that was drilled into us by our parents and it was driven into them my the schools, by the government and by society.
Here it is ….
That a choice between making money and having a quality family life are things mutually exclusive of eachother.
You can’t be the CEO of a company and spend lots of time with your kids.
You can’t get married now, your career will suffer.
Well I’m here to say that its all a load of BS.
Who said that you can’t have your cake and eat it too.
Heck that don’t even make sense!
Why would you have a cake and NOT EAT IT?!
Are we all really that brainwashed?
It is my believe you can have an absolutely amazing career and have an incredible relationship, marriage, family life .. whatever.
Because at the end of the day its about priorities and time management. That’s what it really comes down too.
You know why I know its possible? Because I’m surrounded by people who are living this “so call unattainable dream”.
These are internet marketers, multi-millionaires, people who travel the world with their family who have AMAZING time freedom.
Not only do they have the time, but they have the peace of mind to enjoy good quality time with their kids or their loved ones.
They are incredibly laid back, generous … and god forbid, HAPPY!
Now I’m not saying that you have to be an internet marketer to enjoy this lifestyle or to attain the dream.
The avenue and vehicle you choose is not even relevant here.
But what I’m saying is that you always have a choice.
You have a choice in your actions and you have a choice in what you believe is possible for you.
I make sure to surround myself with people who have immense belief in themselves, their dreams and respectively me and my dreams.
They support and inspire these visions that I hold for my life.
But here is the thing.
I choose them.
I could have also picked friends who treat me like absolute crap, who take advantage of me and who kill my spirit.
But I don’t. Because I know the power to choose is in my hands.
So next time when someone tells you that you can’t have your cake and eat it too.
I want you to seriously think about whether or not that is true.
Then I want you to buy a cake .. and eat it too. Right in front of them.
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