Ever noticed someone say a comment about their dating life like ” All the good men are taken”, “I just can’t seem to find a nice guy”, “All the hot girls are snobs”, “Everyone wants to be my friend, yet no-one wants to date me” …..

You know I could go on and on and on and on ….

But really the list is endless.

Well here is what I have to say about that.

You are putting it on YOURSELF and the only one to blame for getting whatever it is that you are getting is YOU.

And YES in case you didn’t notice. I can be blunt. In fact I like being blunt.

Because it gets your attention.

So here is the thing that I wanted to share with you guys. Whatever it is that you expect out of your relationships is what you are going to get. Because that is all that you are going to see.

Want me to share something really kool with you.

ok so here goes.

Your world …. is like the internet. Pretty much anything and everything is available out there.

Your mind is like google. It acts like a search engine. N whatever it is that you type into the search engine will come up into your results page and that is all that you will see.

So for example.

For those of you that are having bad dating experiences. Its good to note the kinds of things that you are saying to yourself.

I can guarantee you that there will be some dis empowering beliefs about dating and relationships.

What I have found is that a lot of the new pick up artists, have the potential to be great and natural at the dating game and the only thing that stops them, is what they are saying to themselves and essentially what they are typing into their search engines.

If you type in happy dating experiences into your search engine, guess what you will start seeing?

At the same time if you expect to never be interested in the guy you go on a date with … or expect to be disappointed.

Then guess what?? you will!

I know I know … it all sounds a little too easy doesn’t it.

But I guess its just one of those things that works and can’t really be explained.

All you have to know … is that this is something that you can use too.

So next time you are complaining about a date or your relationship or wondering why the same thing happens to you over and over again.

Take a quick rain check and have a look at what you are typing into your search engine.

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