So lets look at the above image. Isn’t it sweet? Picture Perfect right?

WRONG!

Why?

Let me explain ……

So as you all know 2008 is a leap year. And as part of tradition this means that on 29th Feb as a girl you can propose to your guy.

Now here is the thing. I’m all about being an Alpha Female. With that comes a little bit of a dominant personality trait. Some people may think that Alpha Females have more masculine traits in them. Well whatever …The fact of the matter is that as an Alpha Female, I would never ever ever propose to my partner. I don’t care what day it is. I don’t care about leap years. I don’t care how long we have been dating. To me – proposals are done by the man.

The one problem I have about this … Is that I really think that this emasculates the man. I mean it’s the guys job to propose. That’s his thing!

The ironic thing is that I have no problems with a girl earning more money than her man .. but I do have a problem with a girl proposing to a guy. This, in my rule book just doesn’t sit right. To be honest it kind of grosses me out and makes me squirm.

In the dating game, I really believe that you can’t do a man’s job for him. You can’t make decisions for him and you can’t think for him. Yet so many so women when it comes to dating, turn into green eyed monsters and start wanting commitment, marriage and kids after the 2nd date.

That’s part of the reason why I think its important for the guy to propose. Here’s the thing girls. The only reason why a guy hasn’t proposed is because he isn’t ready. When he is ready willing and excited, then it will happen. If he hasn’t, its because he is still trying to figure himself out. So when you go out there and propose to him first, while he might say yes, you have taken his job and his role and put yourself up S*** creek.

Now I’m all about being a liberated kind of chick. N I really don’t find anything liberating about proposing to a guy. In fact i think it makes you look like a bit of an idiot.

If there is one thing that I want to say in this post is you have to let your man be a man. Give him some space so you can see the relationship flourish. And by all means don’t propose to him first!So guys what do you reckon? Am I right? Would you feel weird if your partner proposed to you first. Or said “I love you” first. How would you react?

Let me know your thoughts guys – because you know I’m listening =)

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