So we have all seen the movies. Guy meets girl. Guy heads over head heels in love with girl. Girl feels the same way. They get together, get married, settle down and have a family.

Ohhh and lets not forget the happily ever after part. So when we snap back to reality, for the single people out there, life doesn’t really seem to work that way.

Firstly the only prince charming that comes your way is the mail man. And he ain’t that cute. Secondly when you do meet a guy you really like, he doesn’t end up feeling the same way about you. Thirdly for some reason you have plenty of friends that are boys, but not boyfriends.

Well I’m here to say that finding love shouldn’t and isn’t that hard, but why is it that sometimes we find ourselves in situation B that i described? Well i think that its because we for some reason have in our mind that these fairy tales never happen, that we have to go out there an actively find a man/women whatever.

I reckon its the search that it making it hard. Let me ask you this question. Do you think its easier to find someone when you are looking for them, or when you completely don’t expect it all? I think that the harder you look then the harder it becomes to find someone. And i think that you will find that extra someone special when you least bloody expect it.

Its the times when you go down to the shops and are in your tracky dacks, that you meet someone who you believe to be the most gorgeous person ever. Or when you are completey sworn off the opposite sex.

I think this is possible because once you stop looking you stop becoming so desperate. You stop focusing on being single and start focusing on yourself. You do things that you love doing and your enjoying life. Your being happy, your smiling more and your being more approachable. Your focusing on things that you want to achieve, your going out there and living a great life. Its then and only then that you are able to attract someone into your life you wants to be a part of that.

So i reckon for those that are single and sick of it. I would say to stop focusing on the bad parts of being single and celebrate that for the moment, you get to spend a little more time on yourself. Then have the faith and the trust that you will meet someone when the time is right =)

So guys what do you reckon. Is it easier to find someone when you are not looking for them? What have been some of your experiences with this?Let me know your thoughts – Because I’m listening.

Hot Alpha Female

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