Dating IS a Game – So Deal With It
I’ve seen so many people complain about the dating game. Complain that there are too many rules and then complain about the fact that there are rules. Common things I hear are “Why cant someone just like me for me” or “Dating rules?? Nah they are all a bunch of rubbish”.
Well sorry to drop the bomb on some of you reading this. But usually people who make those comments, are just frustrated, upset and confused as to why they cant make the game work for them. They don’t understand why someone isn’t interested in them and blame it on the person, rather than looking at what actions they have been doing that might have caused such a response.
Hey I’m here to say something that many of you might not like to hear. Dating IS A GAME, there are RULES and its your job to learn what they are. I’ll let you in on something. There is ONE thing that both guys and girls get wrong in this game.
So I’m going to tell you what they are … are you ready?
So for the guys. The single thing that you guys do wrong, most or all of the time, is to be too nice. You know the saying “Nice guys finish last” … well I reckon that a chick said that .. and she was talking about YOU!
The one thing that a nice guys need to remember is that
A) You can’t talk a chick into liking you
B) You can’t bribe a chick into liking you
C) You cant convince a chick into liking you
The only way you are going to get a girl to like you, is to almost, seduce and lure her into liking you. She is the one at the end of the day making the decision if she is going to accept your invitation.
Your job is to be one irresistible invitation.
So now for the girls. The single thing we do wrong, is to be too needy. Now this can be expressed in a number of different ways, but usually is expressed by being controlling, demanding and just plain right bitchy.
Here’s the thing girls. Guys don’t like to be told what to do. They like to think that they have control over their own whole world. So when you come along and tell them how to eat, sleep and go to the toilet and demand things like commitment, marriage and a car ….. well it kind of freaks them out.
So the one thing that you need to remember is
A) You can’t talk a guy into commitment
B) You cant force a guy into commitment
C) You can’t bribe a guy into commitment
What you can do, is to sit back and enjoy the courting process. What you can do, is make you’re a prize by which he will want to hunt.
At the end of the day for both genders. Its all about seduction. Learn how to seduce the opposite sex and your already half way there.
What do you guys reckon? Let me know your thoughts – Because I’m listening
Hot Alpha Female