Quit Complaining and Just Be Happy!
How many times have you heard about your friends complaining about their dating life. They complain when they are single that its hard to find someone. And when they do find someone they complain about the person that are in a relationship with. My response to this post, delves into why we should just be happy with where we are at the moment. Read this link first.
Are You Really Lonely For A Boyfriend?
Hello Everyone =)
Well this is the big debated topic right? Is it good to be single?! After reading all your guys comments and from my own experience I would say that being single can be great and being single can totally suck!
It really depends on which side of the bed that you woke up on.
Sometimes your like .. YEH!!! Being single is awesome!! You get to hang out with who you want, when you want, how you want. You have total and absolute freedom and no attachments.
No arguments with your boyfriend and no relationship issues. You can travel and the blink of an eye, you can leave things behind in a flash.
Then at the other end of the spectrum you really wish that you had someone there to comfort you when you’re feeling down.
Someone who is always available to go out to the movies with, to take to weddings, to go to friends places.
You miss that companionship and that ability to share your heart with someone else.
I honestly believe that we are not meant to go through life alone. We invite people into our lives so we can share these wonderful experiences together. To have people there for you in your times of need, when you’re going through something tough. N to have people there when you are at peaks or highlights of your life that you can celebrate with.
So I guess what Im trying to say is … don’t be happy with being single or not being single.
Just be happy with the current situation you are in at the moment and make the most of it. Appreciate the things about being single that you love. When the time is right to find a partner then you can appreciate all the good things about being in a relationship.
Sometimes we just focus on things that we don’t have at the moment. We are always looking at what is lacking, instead of appreciating what we have at the moment.
So I would say if you’re single, enjoy it for what it is worth .. Because I guarantee you … you will have a lot less single days than attached days .. So what’s the dam rush?!
If you’re attached, well then I would say be grateful for your partner and all the wonderful things they bring into your life .. Just because they are there =)
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I know it’s an old post but still a relevant one – it’s so frustrating when people are complaining about their status – be happy with who you are right now (single or otherwise) and focus on all the positive things in your life right now rather than focusing on the negatives. When you focus on the negatives, the only person losing out is you.
@AS: Could not have said it any better. As they say “what you focus on expands”. That doesn’t mean that you have to force a smile on your face when you feel like crap. But that does mean that you always have the choice as to decide how you think and therefore feel about something. So, it’s about personal responsibility.
Thanks for the comment =)
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