Are Alpha Males Scared Of Alpha Females?!
I was having an very interesting conversation with my friend the other day and I thought I would bring it up here.
If you were an Alpha Male would you date an Alpha female?
If being Alpha is all about domination and who is in control, I have heard from many people that they don’t think this kind of match would work. After all, all the Alpha Males that I know are quite happy with their Beta Females. You know chicks who actually listen to them and do exactly what they are told.
I dunno I just find it strange.
If u were such an Alpha Male, wouldn’t you have the balls to date someone who gives you a run for your money? Who challenges your opinion? Who is someone that is more your equal?
I’m not saying that Alpha Females are like men, nor am I saying that they should be. All I’m talking about is a little bit of equality here. Yet when I talk to some guys about this, not many of them have the guts to date a chick like that. Maybe they weren’t Alpha Males. Who knows.
Even though i don’t think this could work out. I really wish that is something that could happen.
Can you imagine an Alpha Male and an Alpha Female together.
I reckon that would make one interesting and very exciting relationship. I’m smiling just thinking about it. The truth of the matter is though .. so i have heard, is that Alpha Males don’t want this. They can have a whole range of chicks that they can pick from and why would they want a chick who challenges them so much?
I think that is an Alpha Male could fight for the control, he could easily win over an Alpha Female. Maybe some shy away from the challenge. Maybe some are just not up for it.
All i know is that are Alpha Females out there and Females in general … who want guys to step up take the control and basically be MEN.
Hot Alpha Female
Just a thought….when guys are single at 30 they are revered as eligible bachelors…..when women (no matter how successful career wise)are single at 30 they are looked upon as a disgusting lot ….
so aren't we as women
Its takes an alpha(strong) male to know he is at times weak. I love an alpha female to be there for me when i am. There is nothing sexier than an equal mate you can respect.
The original question is: If you were an Alpha Male would you date an Alpha female? = definately… and I am. I have this amazing GF (she’s an ambitious, creative, determined and a very attractive corporate high-flyer and won some achievement/recognition awards from her firm). I do like a challenge, I do lead and am confident in myself. I think that we’re equals and achieve more togeather than if we were apart. Its a good, strong relationship.
So guys, if a woman ticks all your boxes are you going to let her get away – definately not. Whats wrong with the alpha female? are you intimidated, because you shouldn’t be – they’re human beings just like the rest of us. Moreover, if you are alpha – you would have a solid grounding and belief in self (you are the man so believe in yourself guys – come-on!!). There are definately girls who appear high energy (so match that energy initially, then gradually slow it doen, smooth it out, maintain good confident eye contact) or if you’re not interested or she doesn’t match your ‘standards’ (eg smoker, doesn’t take care of herself, lazy, etc) – well, its your call if you want to persue her. The skills are out there unless you really are fake – although you really are not, so lead.
What is the alpha male anyways – who actually gets a 100% success rate with any woman they want, anywhere, anytime??!! Definately NOT
All the best
Regards
Micha
i lived under the roof of an alpha female, i rember she thought me to respect her when she carved these scars into my skin with her cooking knife
The worst relationship I ever had was with an Alpha Male.He was attracted by my independence,but ultimately what he really wanted from me was to sit and listen to him and look up to him like a love-sick puppy,which of course didn`t happen.I pursued my interests,hang out with people I chose and he had a hard time accepting that.He tried to forbade me certain people and activities from my life as an ultimatum to be with him.He was sickeningly jealous and used passive-aggressive ploys to grab my attention,he yelled one moment,than cried the next one,then played hard to get.I didn`t love him,nor trusted him and dumped his sorry ass.However,I found out that he talked a lot about me to the girl he started dating after me which was of course a Beta Female.
A mans daily challenge is the entire world..Home is to be the haven he built for himself and his mate..his woman is the closeness thing to heaven his offspring will ever have…why on earth would he want to change that..
I’m an alpha female and I get bored easily with guys who don’t match up(most men). I’m very successful and busy and for the most part toy with men. I know this sounds bad but right now my career is first. I’m currently dating an alpha male!!! Its been battle of the alphas for 7 months. All of my friends think I’m nutz and wonder how do I deal with his ways and the other women. I do it by knowing what I bring to the table and being in no rush to be had!! Its almost like a dance! He go I go we both take turns proving our worth to the other. I love the time we spend together. And no I don’t consider him to be cheating on me cause I’m not married to him and I date other men! Looking for more alphas! Lolz He doesn’t like it he’s very jealouse and possessive but until I have reason to give him loyalty it is what it is. Beware alpha males are not for the weak hearted and unsure!!! They do not tolerate disrespect and you shouldn’t either not tolerate a man who let’s you disrespect him. All that was to say that an alpha/alpha can work if both parties are up to it. Will it last though? Depends on the trust and loyalty she have between them.