The Type Of Guy That An Alpha Female Is Attracted To – Part 2
You can read the first part here
I’m going to continue on this roll. Now a lot of the guys that I talked to after I put my last blog up asked me what kind of guy they thought they were. I couldn’t really give most of them an answer because they didn’t necessarily fall under any of the first categories. Because this section is all dedicated to the PROVIDER personality types, which are equally attractive to females, but for different reasons. This is the number one reason why you see hot chicks who marry kinda fat and kinda not so good looking husbands. But of course it’s the personality that counts right?! =)
Well I hate to break it to ya boys and girls. Just a pointer for the girls. We are attracted to two types of guys. Obviously the alpha male (lover) and the provider types. Now ultimately we want to have the children of the alpha males (coz supposedly they have stronger genes) and we want the reliable provider types to raise our children. Pity we don’t live in that kind of world.
So let’s start with the first provider personality that we can break down.
The Successful Guy
Ok lets me honest, I kinda didn’t really like any of the lover types that much. Maybe the adventurous dude a little, but if he was a little wacko then I would get bored really easily. The successful guy in my terms is like the universal man magnet for chicks. They love a guy who has made something of himself. I don’t know it’s just hot. I think why we like this so much because no matter what the guy is successful it, it shows that he has initiative, drive and passion for what he does. This obviously puts him in a masculine light and shows that he is a very capable person. While I say that this is one of the most highly sort after characteristics of a guy .. Just because you are successful doesn’t mean that you are automatically going to be attracting chicks left right and centre. Although it does dramatically increase your chances! The success draws the attention, but you do actually have to back that up with some sort of an interesting personality to hold the attention in the long term.. Or at least for the next 10 min of conversation, especially with an Alpha Female, who judges a guy in 3 seconds flat … or less … on a good day.
The Controlling Daddy
Ok well that sounds a bit wrong, but basically these are the guys who have total control over their women. They are dominating they tell her what to do, and most importantly they seem to take care of her! Chicks love this stuff, they like having the guy take that masculine provider and protective role so that they be treated like a girl and pampered and be taken care of. As a side note a lot of chicks out there want to believe that they are Alpha Females, but really they are not, they are simply just chicks who are too scared to surrender to a guy and therefore label themselves as this as a decent reason to act the way that they do. Being a Hot Alpha Female is actually all about self confidence and being able to trust and open up to someone that is worthwhile.
The Regular Guy
See look nice guys don’t always finish last. Girls are actually attracted to the normal guy, provided that they can draw enough attention to themselves in order to be seen. I think the most common characteristics of the regular guy that females find attractive are genuine, stable and loyal guys. We actually have the hots for these kind of guys because we know that they are really nice guys and that they will treat us with love and respect. These are usually the guys that women marry. But you have to be careful here, because if you don’t mix it up and add a bit of spice and variety to your personality and routine then the female will get bored and start losing respect for you and probably want to date someone else.
The Ass Kissing Guy
Ok. I have a lot to say about this one. Now every girl has or has had an ass kissing guy stalk her at one point in time. N every guy has heard or been an ass kissing guy. These are the guys that don’t know the meaning of personal space. They invade your privacy, msg you like 20 million times a day, call you all the time, remind you of how beautiful you are every 3.2 seconds and you may have even seen them outside your bedroom window late at night. I think the only reason why we are sometimes attracted to these guys is because we love the attention. We don’t like the guy, we kinda like all the gifts, but really all your good for, is to milk you for all you got or use and abuse you and no not the kind your thinking. These are the guys that we complain to all out girlfriends about … like how annoying you are .. Why you won’t leave us alone .. N although sometimes we are secretly intrigued by it all … mainly you’re just nothing but a passing fad. Some girls though love an ass kissing guy, one that is at her whim and do everything that she asks him to. In a sense she is mothering him and he thoroughly enjoys it. Very dominant and controlling women love these kind of men, some even marry them, because they have a certainly that he will never cheat on them. Now while is one of the personality traits that is appealing to women, for the guys, I would say stick with the other 7 traits, it will be a lot cheaper and a little less degrading.
Well that concludes in total the 8 attractive personality types. With that in mind I will quickly list a couple of things that girls find very unappealing in guys. Some chicks don’t even know it. So im helping you out here! The number one thing to remember is that chicks absolutely hate nerdy, needy and clingy guys. If u want to be the ultimate chick repellant then I suggest being one. Girls love guys that are in control of their emotions, finances, and life. Seriously we just want a big strong guy, to sweep us off our feet and rescue us from the deluded world we have create around us. N that applies to Alpha Females as well, no matter what any of them say.
Hot Alpha Female
N remember “Sure God created man before woman, but then again you always make a rough draft before creating the final masterpiece”